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Sometimes, good sex is all in the details. Without the staple items, you can’t enjoy safe, worry-free sex. Condoms, lube, and quality cleaner are must-have items in anyone’s sex toy toolkit. After you’ve selected your favorite vibrator, dildo, or anal toy, you need the right protection to fully enjoy and explore every sexual escapade! 

So, why are these items so important and how do you choose the best ones for your needs? We thought you’d never ask! Let’s take a sneak peek between the sheets.

Why You Need Extras in Your Sexual Wheelhouse

There’s really no mystery as to why condoms are a must-have item. They protect against STDs and unwanted pregnancy. The good news is the design, style, and material used to make condoms have come leaps and bounds over the years, making sex with a condom feel as good as barebacking. 

Lubricants are a must-have for safe and comfortable sex. Whether you’re having intercourse or using your favorite sex toy, lube helps get you primed and ready for action. Not all women get wet enough for comfortable penetration. Lubricant is also a must for anal play and sex. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate and without a little assistance, you won’t get very far. You can choose from silicone or water-based lubricant depending on your preference and needs. Certain lubes are best used with sex toys, also. For example, silicone lube is thick and long-lasting but can damage sex toy products made of silicone. Water-based lubricants are the best option for these types of toys and anyone seeking a lube that feels more like your own natural wetness.

Dirty sex is fun, but dirty sex toys are not! Cleaning your sex toys regularly isn’t just sanitary but it also helps them last longer. Following a hot and heavy sex session, your toys are probably caked in bodily fluids and other liquids (as they should be)! This is why it’s recommended you clean your toys using a quality toy cleaner after every use. Now, they’re clean and ready for you to dirty them all over again!


Let’s talk about condoms. These cock covers have been around for over 150 years -- saving lives and preventing the creation of new ones. Most condoms are made of rubber or latex but come in a variety of sizes and designs with features like ribbing and lubrication. 

We proudly carry some of the most popular brands including Trojan and Lifestyles.


Trojan condoms were created over 100 years ago and are a symbol of strength and stamina. The Bareskin variety is ultra-thin, creating the perfect amount of warmth, comfort, and unobstructed pleasure between both partners. Looking for added stimulation? You’ll love the studded design which provides added texture. 

For men packing a little extra length and girth (congrats), Trojan released their Magnum line of condoms. Magnum condoms are designed with the guy’s comfort in mind and offer a larger reservoir, extended length, and a tapered base. Available in XL, ribbed, Bareskin, and ultrathin, super-sized guys are sure to find the perfect condom to fit their anatomy and their needs.


Lifestyle is another leading brand in safe sex. First introduced as far back as 1905, Lifestyle condoms are now available in a variety of sizes, styles, and features.

Skyn is one of Lifestyle’s most popular condom lines. These premium rubbers condoms are known for their “extra” features -- extra lubrication, extra ribbing, and extra thin design which all enhance pleasure for both partners. They’re also available in non-latex for anyone with an allergy or seeking a different sensation. 


Lubricants are sometimes underrated and underappreciated. Using a lubricant isn’t a bad thing. In fact, it can make sex alone or with a partner that much more enjoyable. Whether you’re exploring backdoor play or you’re a woman who just doesn’t get as wet as she’d like, lubricant lets you go longer and deeper than ever before. But before you lube up, it’s important to understand the different types and uses. 

Water-Based Lube

Water-based lubricants are some of the most versatile of all lubes and help you slide (literally) into your favorite sex positions. The best part is, water-based lubes are compatible with all types of condoms and sex toys. This is the ideal type of lubricant for silicone vibrators, dildos, and all other sex toys. It’s also perfect for skin-on-skin contact and replicates natural lubrication. Clean-up is also quick and easy! Just remember, after a while, water-based lubricant can get a little sticky but just add some water and it will loosen right back up for continued fun. 


Silicone lubes are much thicker than their water-based counterparts and won’t get sticky or dry out over time. This makes them ideal for anal play or when using larger sex toys. Just beware, silicone lubes will actually ruin your silicone toys, so make sure you check your materials first. Silicone lube rarely needs reapplying and is compatible with water-play. The only minor downside is that clean-up is a bit more involved thanks to silicone lube’s thick feel. But chances are, it’ll be well worth it! 


Looking to heat things up even a little more? Warming lube offers all the same features of a slippery, sexy lubricant with an added warming agent. Most warming lubricants are activated on contact. Both your natural body heat and moisture bring the tingling sensations to life.

Massage Oil

There’s nothing quite like a sensual massage to get things heated up between the sheets. Whether you’re giving or receiving an erotic massage, these oils help create intimacy and arousal. Their calming scent will help relax and stimulate your senses. Lay back, relax, and get ready to release more than just your stress.

Anal Lubes

While silicone lubricant is a good choice for anal play, there are actually certain lubricants specifically designed for anal sex and penetration. Since the anal canal isn’t self-lubricating (and often quite tight), you’ll need plenty of slide and glide for safe exploration. Whether it’s your finger, a butt plug, or a prostate massager, invest in quality anal lube and go slow. Patience is a virtue when exploring your back door.


Clean-up is a must after sex -- especially if you do it right! Whether you use lubricant or not, all of your sex toys and accessories require proper cleaning after every use. The good news is, a quality sex toy cleaner makes this process fast and easy.

Simply spray the toy cleaner over the entire surface of the toy (a little goes a long way, no need to saturate). Then, rinse with lukewarm water and either pat dry with a towel or air dry. You can also use mild soap and water. Just check the label to make sure the toy cleaner you choose is safe for use with silicone and battery-operated toys.

Extra Supplies Makes Extra Pleasure

While your sex toy collection should include a wide range of vibrators, dildos, lingerie, and kinky accessories, you also need some staple items that make sex safer and more fun. Condoms, lubes, and toy cleaners are must-have items and are available in a wide variety of brands, styles, and materials to maximize your options and your pleasure!